Soothing words

Be excellent in all you do. Be wise as well. There are lots of individuals who may be struggling now to come to terms with themselves and life but that does not mean they are no good at what they do. People sometimes get hard hit by circumstance and they thrive to get out of same and push still to the place of success they so desire. Be patient with these ones. Do not show to them you won the contest. You are not in any contest. Never find yourself acting like you are better than somebody else. Prove yourself in situations and be proud of yourself. Do not be critical of other people and how they are catching up with success at a slow pace. You and your situation are unique from some else’s. Do not act like you are better than anybody else. Acting this way is a smooth ride to failure.

People differ in diverse ways. Every individual inhibits a bad and good side to their personality. We should thrive to listen to people more and see for ourselves the good side. We must not judge an individual based on information from another individual. Everyone has the potential to succeed and fail. Watch closely and see that the person you so dislike is not what he or she really is. Be friends with them and see another side of them. There is gold in everyone dig for it!

We make the bed we lay on by the attitude we portray day after day. Take a break from the usual you this new year. The usual you used to be filled with negative attitude and that got you in trouble and hid all the good things of life from you. Bad attitude sends the wrong message or signal to people. Bad attitude puts off the kindest of humans and sends them flying above your head to assist someone else. A bad attitude starts from how you perceive people, your reaction to what they say and eventually it shows up in your body language. Purpose this New Year to be humble. Humility is respecting authority, being thankful, showing up early at work, study when necessary and doing the right things when no one is watching. Remember: humility is the foundation of every good attitude. Once this is set, your attitude will change and people who did not like to see you would be drawn to your light. Get a new attitude to life!

If you missed the mark, propose in your heart to have a fresh start. A fresh start means, dedication and love to family members, focus on a career path and having good relationship with people regardless of their age, sex, race, religion and opinion of life-these are the basics of life. Remember: your life is a reflection of how you have dealt with people and situations. Be careful this time around to make it right. Get back to the basics of life!

Common sense eludes some folks. Wisdom is something everyone should not fiddle with. Wisdom takes you to places where you cannot go by yourself. For instance, a dad who was divorced just got married to a lady you do not like. Your wisdom as a child is to play the fool by smiling at her joke and helping her around the house, by so doing your dad would be loved more and in-turn you would get the result of your kind actions. Folks who do not possess wisdom act the opposite way, which would amount to chaos that may not be repaired. Wisdom is making the right odd choices. Wisdom is setting the right standard and doing the right thing at the right time. Wisdom is, planning for each day, month and year. Go for wisdom, it’s the best driver of a good life!

It takes nothing from you to make someone’s day by giving them a kind smile. A smile attracts for you a very good day and it keeps your face radiant all day long. Keep on smiling!

Life is beautiful and colorful like the rainbow. You are a rainbow. Be mindful of the color you put on. Living life as free as a child is very much advocated. A child has no enemy, takes no record of wrong done, have no inhibition or is not embarrassed at any point in time. We receive exactly what we put in life. If you want the best in life, learn how to live as a child. At times, you may see the evil in humans but look the other way and focus on enjoying life all the same. Remember, when you are angry, you make life miserable for you and all around. When you are happy you exude same. So, why not deliberately stay happy by overlooking wrong. I bet overtime you would not bother about the wrong but about making it right at all times. Spread the rainbow people!

It's not the end of the world, if your experiences this season is painful. Create your own environment. Create a world of your own where you would be happy. Deliberately brighten up, do not allow the negative happening of the surrounding affect you adversely. You create your environment by giving allowance for people’s flaws, like you know they will make mistakes because they are human. Now that you know people can be somewhat nasty why not be happy already, knowing they are only human.

 

Merry Christmas! You could not buy someone a gift...? You did not get a gift...? Receive the priceless life offered you and a chance to make it right...it can only get better... be happy!

Choose to be happy irrespective of your present circumstance. Choose to wear a smile and let nothing dissuade you from enjoying your day. You might have been criticized all year long, refuse to be downed. Remember, you are like the sun that rises every day. The sun cannot be downed by anyone. It rises in its time and sets in its time. You are in control of how you feel. Smile or laugh at will and do it freely. You would be creating an environment of comfort and encouragement for yourself. No-one can help you do this except you. Irrespective of how you feel, control train yourself to smile or laugh, before long, it would be part of your personality. Be happy this season and always.